Monday, February 13, 2012

Time in Pennsylvania and What Not

Hello there internets. Long time no blog. We have been pre-occupied and posting pictures and writing about our adventures has been put on the back burner.

We ended our time in Missouri the day after Christmas. We had such a good visit with the whole family. There were several visits with aunts and uncles and cousins. The girls got to meet everyone!

The day after Christmas we started driving for Pennsylvania. We were headed to my parents new home. We planned a late Christmas celebration over New Years with my sisters and their husbands. My Aunt and Uncle even came up from Alabama the week of Christmas and New Years to stay at my parents so we were happy to see them also.

We had a great time with family over the holiday, making sure to get lots of candid Christmas shots.








The month of January seemed to rush by with Daniel and I doing house hunting online and then in person. Daniel went to Virginia after New Years and picked out a few houses for us to look at together and then we headed down the day he returned to look at them together. The Lord blessed our search and we found a wonderful home with a close commute for Daniel. Our home here in Springfield has several options for Daniel to get to work without driving. Daniel and I felt it would be wasteful for our family at this point in our time here to have a second vehicle when it would be sitting in a parking garage or our driveway most of the day. He has a short walk to the bus stop that takes him straight to the Pentagon in less than 30 minutes. Pretty nice compared to some people's commutes around here. More about our new life here in a later post.

Well, back to January. We had a great time with my parents in their new beautiful home. They were wonderful help with the girls as I was still getting used to the ropes with two babes. They wouldn't have it any other way. Dad would come home from work and hold Louisa for the rest of the night practically. He has quite a thing for babies, as does my Mom. But since she had Lulu and Violet all day she would relent to him having her most of the evenings. :) 






Violet's vocabulary has grown in leaps and bounds these past few months and she is changing in so many exciting ways. It is a joy discovering more of her personality everyday. She is a hoot!

January also had its difficulties. I had been having chest pains periodically since we started packing our home in California. The first time in Monterey was bad enough to send me right to the ER. The pain lasted about 30 minutes so it was ending by the time we got to the hospital. They ran several tests and had no clear conclusion on what it could be. Since the pain ended, my heart was great, and my lungs were fine, we left the hospital praying it wouldn't happen again. Well, it did. I had two very short episodes in Missouri and a migraine for a week. I have never had a migraine and judging from what people tell me, this is what it was. 

One morning during the week of the migraine, Louisa woke up with a 102 degree fever. We knew we needed to get her to the doctor being so little, so to the hospital we went. We got her to the ER and got fluids and antibiotics in her and her fever decreased quickly. They  still had to run a myriad of tests to try to rule out all the big scary stuff, meningitis, fever on the brain...all the things you have nightmares about related to your child. She checked out great. The tests were the worst part.  They took forever to get in IV in her little veins. Since she was feverish they couldn't send any nurses down from pediatrics without sending them home afterward, just in case Louisa spread something to them that was very dangerous. We had the ER nurses trying their best to find her veins. Thankfully, the main doctor who had to do a spinal fluid tap was great and it went quickly with only minimal crying. At that point she was almost cried out. Her little body was tired of all the poking and prodding. We praise the Lord that nothing serious beyond a small infection attacked her body. She and I stayed in the hospital for two days to make sure that all was clear before they released us. Since her fever decreased quickly with the IV, I took a quick visit to the ER myself to see if they could give me anything for the migraine. They did and it worked a little. The light sensitivity was the worst part and the medication helped with that. By the day we were released my migraine was mostly gone. I was thankful for the time to recoup myself with just Louisa to care for as well and Mom and Dad Goods help in taking care of Violet. Daniel is a super daddy! I couldn't have gone through all this without his help and encouragement.

SO back to the chest pains. We arrived in Pennsylvania and the week after Daniel and I chose a new home I had another chest pain in the middle of the night. This one lasted for a long time and I knew I wanted to go the hospital to try and find the problem. By the time I got in the ER I had a sick stomach as well and was vomiting. They started checking my gall bladder and low and behold I had an acute gall bladder infection and needed to get my gall bladder removed.  I was thankful they had found the source of this bizarre chest pain. Who would have thought that chest pain could be caused by a gall bladder infection? Come to find out several women have trouble with their gall bladders after pregnancy. One nurse I had said I was the fourth women post-partum who had their gall bladder removed in the last two months that she helped. WOW! This time it required a stay of 5 days in the hospital and my family was so helpful in the process with Violet and Louisa. This time I couldn't nurse Lulu so I was praying I would be able to keep my milk up during the hospital stay and more importantly that she would return to nursing once I was able to feed her again. She took to the bottle just fine and returned to me beautifully once I was home. We had a little rearranging required with my stomach tenderness after the incisions, but all in all she is a pro. I was and am still praising the Lord for his provision during that time.

I had a quick recovery time for a week at my parents while Daniel moved us into our new home with the help of some wonderful family and friends. Unfortunately, the chest pain returned the week after my surgery and this time it didn't go away quickly. It lasted for another week despite more hospital visits. I finally was referred to a gastroenterologist and he did more testing.  We are still waiting to find out more. I am feeling near 100% now but I don't know if the chest pain will return again. I know God is in control of the entire situation and I know he orchestrated it perfectly during Daniel's time off and our time with family. Without our parents help we would not have had such a smooth transition. Praise God for all His provisions!

Sorry for the small novel on my health above but it has been a large part of our last three months. I have seen a hospital in every state we stayed in. It makes me so thankful for the days of health for me and my family. Our bodies are so frail!

Our journey to Ginia, as Violet calls it was a long one, but it was filled with sweet family time and lots of rest and recuperation.

Thank you dear family for taking care of us so lovingly and sacrificially during our PCS. We are thankful for the long visits with each side of the family.

9 comments:

Christy said...

Thank you so much for the update. People at church have been asking how you were doing since the surgery and I was embarrassed to admit that I didn't really know.

So sorry that the chest pain has still been problematic.

So glad to hear that you were able to return to nursing without much trouble. What a blessing!

Love you guys!

Goodfellows said...

Gracious, Maryn! What a past few months! So glad you are all well now! We will be praying about the chest pains. Kylie had to be tested for meningitis once and I will never forget that spinal tap! So sorry she had to go through that, but very thankful she tested out well! Love to all of you!

Sandy said...

Wow, that's a lot of "whatnot"!
The girls looks so sweet in that picture, love it:)
Praying they will figure out what's up with the chest pain soon, hope to visit next time we' re in va, love you all!!

Anonymous said...

Wow, Maryn, I just looked at your blog --- it's been a long time since Hawaii! Two sweet little girls!! Congratulations! And you are in the DC area - we are too - Southern MD. Want to get together?? I'll have two little ones in tow as well. :) I don't think I have a current email for you, but mine is frneubert@juno.com. I'd love to catch up with you. Blessings, Jen Neubert

Anonymous said...

So good to hear your news. I have been praying for you and looking for updates since we knew you were having surgery. Wish we could have seen you over December.

Hope will go well from here on out. 2 little girls keep you busy, I know. Seems like it wasn't so very long ago since I had 2. Now they have HS students! Always love to hear your news.

Aunt Phyllis

Lolly said...

I love that you are so close in "Ginia" and am so happy that I get to see you all more :D

With all of the flux that the last few months have brought your way, I hope that you are getting back to your routines and beginning to feel better.

Love to you sissy <3

CLR said...

We are praying for you guys! Thanks for taking the time to update, I know how hectic it is with a move, baby, and you've been ill too. Take care sweet one. We'll look forward to seeing you soon.

Judi said...

I'm so glad that you updated us as I have been checking your blog frequently and was somewhat concerned. I'm thankful that your move went well but am sorry to hear that you are still having some chest pain. Praying that it would finally be resolved and you've had your last attack.

You have a beautiful family, Maryn. May God continue to bless you all! Glad to have you back on the east coast. Enjoy lovely Virginia!

Appollo Schloss said...

I love the new blog.

We will be praying for you friend.